You Are Important

What you think of yourself is much more important than what other people think of you.In order to be the best you period, you must be willing to show yourself love by making time for yourself. In a world full of hustle and bustle it is easy to get so distracted and so far away from the notion that spending time with yourself is one of the best investments that we are able to make in our lives. We must be willing to make time for ourselves in order to realize who we really are, to figure out which directions that we want to go in life, and to be able to plan how to get there. We must also make time for ourselves because doing so will help keep us sane. Sure having company and being around uplifting positive people is definitely healthy for us, but we will always need that little bit of me time as regularly as possible in order to never forget who we are, and how important being ourselves is. Read more at SearchQuotes

Posted on: 6 March 2017 | 5:08 am

List of Romantic Valentines Day Love Quotes with Pictures

So many times I thought I would never find someone to love me the way I needed to be loved. Then you came into my life and showed me what true love really is!

Posted on: 14 February 2017 | 5:04 am

10 Beautiful and Romantic Love Quotes with Pictures

10 beautiful love quotes just in time for Valentines Day.

Posted on: 13 February 2017 | 4:57 am

Love Yourself First and Everything Else Falls Into Place

Love yourself first and everything else falls into place.I'm sure we have all at some point felt as though no one in the world has our back, and that no one cares or loves us, but this should never be true, because at the end of the day, it is inevitable for us to love ourselves first, so that other people may be able to love us as well. Usually us feeling like this doesn't really hold true anyway and we just arent thinking clearly about those people that truly love us, or if we can just find the love we should have for ourselves then we will easily blossom into beautiful flowers that everyone wants to pick, take care of, and love. In order to love ourselves we have to find ourselves first. Sometimes it may have been years since we actually treated ourselves as good as we have treated other people and we have forgotten who we are, what we like to do, where we like to go, so on and so forth. Try taking advantage of the fact that you may be alone at this time in your life, and focus on you, the rest will come! Search Quotes

Posted on: 8 February 2017 | 4:59 am

10 Ways You're Making Your Life Harder Than It Has To Be

The mystery of life is not a problem to be solved but a reality to be experienced.1. You ascribe intent. Another driver cut you off. Your friend never texted you back. Your co-worker went to lunch without you. Everyone can find a reason to be offended on a steady basis. So what caused you to be offended? You assigned bad intent to these otherwise innocuous actions. You took it as a personal affront, a slap in the face. Happy people do not do this. They dont take things personally. They don't ascribe intent to the unintentional actions of others. 2. You're the star of your own movie. It is little wonder that you believe the world revolves around you. After all, you have been at the very center of every experience you have ever had. You are the star of your own movie. You wrote the script. You know how you want it to unfold. You even know how you want it to end. Unfortunately you forgot to give your script to anyone else. As a result, people are unaware of the role they are supposed to play. Then, when they screw up their lines, or fail to fall in love with you or dont give you a promotion, your movie is ruined. Lose your script. Let someone else star once in awhile. Welcome new characters. Embrace plot twists. 3. You fast forward to apocalypse. I have a bad habit of fast forwarding everything to its worst possible outcome and being pleasantly surprised when the result is marginally better than utter disaster or jail time. My mind unnecessarily wrestles with events that arent even remotely likely. My sore throat is cancer. My lost drivers license fell into the hands of an al-Qaeda operative who will wipe out my savings account. Negativity only breeds more negativity. It is a happiness riptide. It will carry you away from shore and if you dont swim away from it, will pull you under. 4. You have unrealistic and/or un-communicated expectations. Among their many shortcomings of your family and friends is the harsh reality that they cannot read your mind or anticipate your whims. Did your boyfriend forget the six and a half month anniversary of your first movie date? Did your girlfriend refuse to call at an appointed hour? Did your friend fail to fawn over your tribal tattoo? Unmet expectations will be at the root of most of your unhappiness in life. Minimize your expectations, maximize your joy. 5. You are waiting for a sign. I have a friend who wont make a decision without receiving a sign. I suppose she is waiting on a trumpeted announcement from God. She is constantly paralyzed by a divinity that is either heavily obscured or frustratingly tardy. Im not disavowing that fate or a higher power plays a role in our lives. Im just saying that it is better to help shape fate than be governed by it. 6. You don't take risks. Two words: Live boldly. Every single time you are offered a choice that involves greater risk, take it. You will lose on many of them but when you add them up at the end of your life youll be glad you did. 7. You constantly compare your life to others. A few years ago I was invited to a nice party at a big warehouse downtown. I was enjoying the smooth jazz, box wine and crustless sandwiches. What more could a guy want? Later in the evening I noticed a steady parade of well-heeled people slide past and disappear into another room. I peeked and saw a large party with beautiful revelers dancing and carrying on like Bacchus. Suddenly my gig wasnt as fun as it had been all because it didnt appear to measure up to the party next door- a party I didnt even know existed until just moments before. I do this frequently. Those people are having more fun. Mary has a bigger boat. Craig gets all the lucky breaks. Ted has more money. John is better looking. Stop it. Always remember what Teddy Roosevelt said: "Comparison is the thief of joy." 8. You let other people steal from you. If you had a million dollars in cash under your mattress, you would check it regularly and take precautions to insure it is safe. The one possession you have that is more important than money is time. But you dont do anything to protect it. In fact you willingly give it to thieves. Selfish people, egotistical people, negative people, people who wont shut up. Treat your time like Fort Knox. Guard it closely and give it only to those who deserve and respect it. 9. You can't/won't let go. These are getting a little harder arent they? Thats because sometimes you have to work at happiness. Some hurdles are too difficult to clear by simply adjusting your point of view or adopting a positive mindset. Do you need to forgive someone? Do you need to turn your back on a failed relationship? Do you need to come to terms with the death of a loved one? Life is full of loss. But, in a sense, real happiness would not be possible without it. It helps us appreciate and savor the things that really matter. It helps us grow. It can help us help others grow. Closure is a word for people who have never really suffered. Theres no such thing. Just try to manage your loss. Put it in perspective. You will always have some regret and doubt about your loss. You may always second guess yourself. If only you had said this, or tried that. Youre not alone. Find someone who understands and talk to that person. Reach out for support. If all else fails, try #10 below. 10. You don't give back. One way to deal with loss is to immerse yourself in doing good. Volunteer. Get involved in life. It doesn't even have to be a big, structured thing. Say a kind word. Encourage someone. Pay a visit to someone who is alone. Get away from your self-absorption. When it comes down to it, there are two types of people in this world. There are givers and there are takers. Givers are happy. Takers are miserable. What are you?

Posted on: 4 January 2017 | 5:08 am

10 Joyful Spirit Lifting Holiday and Christmas Picture Quotes

10 Joyful Spirit Lifting Holiday and Christmas Picture Quotes

Posted on: 25 December 2016 | 5:06 am

It's Time To Start Living The Life You've Only Imagined

It's time to start living the life you've only imagined.In order to live a life in which we are truly satisfied one of the most important things that we can do is to live life how we imagined it to be. This may mean that we aim to work a job or in a career field that we have always wanted to work in, or maybe raise a family even though the circumstances that we may be presently living in wont seem to allow this. We have to be willing to go after our dreams. It is easy to have dreams and aspirations, but you will not truly have anything until you are willing to pursue these with everything that you have inside of you. Doing so will not always be the easiest thing or the most convenient option for you, and the ones that you love, but it will be well worth the hardships that you encountered in the end when you find yourself living your dreams. As the quote says it is time to start living the life youve only imagined, not the life that anyone else has imagined for you, and not the life that you just are happening to live because of your situation and your circumstances.

Posted on: 19 December 2016 | 7:47 am

Whatever Happens, Happens

Whatever happens, happens.To a degree, in our lives as each moment passes and different circumstances come to past, we have to realize that after they happen, there is no way to change them. We must take life for what it is, a series of unpredictable events ultimately out of our control. Sure there are ways to prepare for life, and understandably doing things such as setting goals and making a game plan for your life will take you to new heights, even to places you would of never imagined being. But life is too, very unpredictable. We never know when our lives will end, and we cant stop things from happening a lot of the time such as accidents, and other fortunate and unfortunate events that life will throw at you. So we must deal with our lives as they come to us, preparing for the future, with the outlook on life that not everything will go as planned, we must adapt to survive, and thrive. We must also be willing to move on from our pasts whether good or bad in order to keep up our lifes journey towards being happy!

Posted on: 12 December 2016 | 5:01 am

The Trick To Forgetting Someone

No matter what I do I always forget to forget you.Doesn't it seem as though we all have that special someone who may have left from our lives months to years ago but still seem to stay on our mind. If you don't have someone in your life as such right now, you more than likely will, and this is just a normal part of existence on this earth. The trick to forgetting someone you loved deeply is that there is no trick to forgetting them. The main thing that we must do is remember the good times that we shared with this person, and to wish them the best instead of holding any ill will towards them (if there is any at all). The lessons we learned from dealing with this person are also imperative to remember. Most importantly don't waste time regretting, keep in mind that they are in your past for a reason, and to keep looking towards the future.

Posted on: 6 December 2016 | 5:08 am

10 Amazing Thanksgiving Picture Quotes To Share

10 amazing Thanksgiving picture quotes to share with friends and family.

Posted on: 24 November 2016 | 3:44 am