Three Choices In Life

When something bad happens you have three choices, you can either let it define you, let it destroy you or let it strengthen you.There are always going to be bad things that happen in your life, what is the measure of a man, is how he or she responds to the things that happen in their lives. When you think about the greatest beings that walk earth, you realize that those who are great don't get caught up in falling or losing a battle. Those who are great rise to the occasion, and shrug off defeat. How many times have you seen a lion complaining or whimpering compared to how many times that you've seen a lion roaring? Winners don't have time to whimper or complain, true winners only have time to do the things that they need to do to be the best. So will you be a winner when defeat lingers near?Will you cave in and whine when everyone else around you is. Will you let the bad circumstances in life deter you from victory? Or will you let the overcoming of your obstacles strengthen you?

Posted on: 9 November 2017 | 4:59 am

Real Friends Will Always Be By Your Side

Real friends are always going to be there by your side, even at times when you tell them to leave.If you already have a real friend in your life, then you know that through thick, and through thin, they will always be there for you. Not to judge you, or to tell you that they tried to warn you before, not to bring you down, or kick you while your down, but instead to help pick you up when you fall, or to sit with you and help talk you into getting back up. Not all of us have had friends like these and if we want one all we must do is be a friend like this to someone who needs it. If you plant seeds of love, in good faith, and in good hopes, it will be returned into your own life abundantly. Be that friend for someone who needs someone by their side. Be that friend for that person going through a bad break up, family problems, or other forms of instability in their own lives, and you will surely find the same in your own life.

Posted on: 8 November 2017 | 4:58 am

Do Not Chase People

Do not chase people. Be you, do your own thing and work hard. The right people who belong in your life will come to you, and stay.Chasing people around in life will be of no benefit to you in the long run. This is mostly because you can't make people be who you want them to be, people will always do what they truly want to do, deep down inside. What you can do is make extraordinary effort each day to be you, and to do what is in your heart, and work hard at it. The people who deserve to be in your life will come in your life, and not only will they just be a part of your life like the people of your past, but they will stay in your life as well. Cut the slack out of your life, and let go of the people that are only bringing you down. There is no reason to be burdened continually by people who don't believe in you, when there are people out there that will.

Posted on: 6 November 2017 | 4:57 am

Do Not Let The Opinions Of Others Consume You

Do not let the opinions of others consume you.When we choose to let the opinions of others matter too much to us, then we are choosing to let their opinions consume us. Instead of living your life worried about what others may think or feel about what you are doing, live your life to the best of your ability, with the things that are in your heart and not someone else's heart. One thing we must all learn in life is that the more that we are productive, and the more that our light and our soul is shown to the world, there are always going to be those who will speak against us, even if most times they have no justification or right to do so. Any time there is a positive force of production in the world, there will be negative forces to try to stop, by speaking against it, and trying to persuade it in any way possible to stop. Never let the opinions of others consume you, live your life, and live to be as great as you possibly may become. By: Search Quotes

Posted on: 7 July 2017 | 5:19 am

Have Faith and Believe In Yourself

Have Faith and Believe In YourselfA person without faith in themselves is like a candle without a flame, though it may have a physical presence, it is not really living up to its full potential because it is not providing any light to the world. Having faith in ones own self, is a quality that breeds more qualities. When someone is able to believe in themselves they are then able to dream, make plans, set goals for themselves, and be motivated and determined to do these things because of the faith they have in themselves. Those who have faith in themselves also rub off on the people around them, and usually help inspire people who are able to make a real change to the world. We must not be afraid to live as the people who we really are deep down in hearts, for in this world of darkness, every candle that is lit will help provide a great amount of light.

Posted on: 1 May 2017 | 6:00 am

You Are Important

What you think of yourself is much more important than what other people think of you.In order to be the best you period, you must be willing to show yourself love by making time for yourself. In a world full of hustle and bustle it is easy to get so distracted and so far away from the notion that spending time with yourself is one of the best investments that we are able to make in our lives. We must be willing to make time for ourselves in order to realize who we really are, to figure out which directions that we want to go in life, and to be able to plan how to get there. We must also make time for ourselves because doing so will help keep us sane. Sure having company and being around uplifting positive people is definitely healthy for us, but we will always need that little bit of me time as regularly as possible in order to never forget who we are, and how important being ourselves is. Read more at SearchQuotes

Posted on: 6 March 2017 | 5:08 am

List of Romantic Valentines Day Love Quotes with Pictures

So many times I thought I would never find someone to love me the way I needed to be loved. Then you came into my life and showed me what true love really is!

Posted on: 14 February 2017 | 5:04 am

10 Beautiful and Romantic Love Quotes with Pictures

10 beautiful love quotes just in time for Valentines Day.

Posted on: 13 February 2017 | 4:57 am

Love Yourself First and Everything Else Falls Into Place

Love yourself first and everything else falls into place.I'm sure we have all at some point felt as though no one in the world has our back, and that no one cares or loves us, but this should never be true, because at the end of the day, it is inevitable for us to love ourselves first, so that other people may be able to love us as well. Usually us feeling like this doesn't really hold true anyway and we just arent thinking clearly about those people that truly love us, or if we can just find the love we should have for ourselves then we will easily blossom into beautiful flowers that everyone wants to pick, take care of, and love. In order to love ourselves we have to find ourselves first. Sometimes it may have been years since we actually treated ourselves as good as we have treated other people and we have forgotten who we are, what we like to do, where we like to go, so on and so forth. Try taking advantage of the fact that you may be alone at this time in your life, and focus on you, the rest will come! Search Quotes

Posted on: 8 February 2017 | 4:59 am

10 Ways You're Making Your Life Harder Than It Has To Be

The mystery of life is not a problem to be solved but a reality to be experienced.1. You ascribe intent. Another driver cut you off. Your friend never texted you back. Your co-worker went to lunch without you. Everyone can find a reason to be offended on a steady basis. So what caused you to be offended? You assigned bad intent to these otherwise innocuous actions. You took it as a personal affront, a slap in the face. Happy people do not do this. They dont take things personally. They don't ascribe intent to the unintentional actions of others. 2. You're the star of your own movie. It is little wonder that you believe the world revolves around you. After all, you have been at the very center of every experience you have ever had. You are the star of your own movie. You wrote the script. You know how you want it to unfold. You even know how you want it to end. Unfortunately you forgot to give your script to anyone else. As a result, people are unaware of the role they are supposed to play. Then, when they screw up their lines, or fail to fall in love with you or dont give you a promotion, your movie is ruined. Lose your script. Let someone else star once in awhile. Welcome new characters. Embrace plot twists. 3. You fast forward to apocalypse. I have a bad habit of fast forwarding everything to its worst possible outcome and being pleasantly surprised when the result is marginally better than utter disaster or jail time. My mind unnecessarily wrestles with events that arent even remotely likely. My sore throat is cancer. My lost drivers license fell into the hands of an al-Qaeda operative who will wipe out my savings account. Negativity only breeds more negativity. It is a happiness riptide. It will carry you away from shore and if you dont swim away from it, will pull you under. 4. You have unrealistic and/or un-communicated expectations. Among their many shortcomings of your family and friends is the harsh reality that they cannot read your mind or anticipate your whims. Did your boyfriend forget the six and a half month anniversary of your first movie date? Did your girlfriend refuse to call at an appointed hour? Did your friend fail to fawn over your tribal tattoo? Unmet expectations will be at the root of most of your unhappiness in life. Minimize your expectations, maximize your joy. 5. You are waiting for a sign. I have a friend who wont make a decision without receiving a sign. I suppose she is waiting on a trumpeted announcement from God. She is constantly paralyzed by a divinity that is either heavily obscured or frustratingly tardy. Im not disavowing that fate or a higher power plays a role in our lives. Im just saying that it is better to help shape fate than be governed by it. 6. You don't take risks. Two words: Live boldly. Every single time you are offered a choice that involves greater risk, take it. You will lose on many of them but when you add them up at the end of your life youll be glad you did. 7. You constantly compare your life to others. A few years ago I was invited to a nice party at a big warehouse downtown. I was enjoying the smooth jazz, box wine and crustless sandwiches. What more could a guy want? Later in the evening I noticed a steady parade of well-heeled people slide past and disappear into another room. I peeked and saw a large party with beautiful revelers dancing and carrying on like Bacchus. Suddenly my gig wasnt as fun as it had been all because it didnt appear to measure up to the party next door- a party I didnt even know existed until just moments before. I do this frequently. Those people are having more fun. Mary has a bigger boat. Craig gets all the lucky breaks. Ted has more money. John is better looking. Stop it. Always remember what Teddy Roosevelt said: "Comparison is the thief of joy." 8. You let other people steal from you. If you had a million dollars in cash under your mattress, you would check it regularly and take precautions to insure it is safe. The one possession you have that is more important than money is time. But you dont do anything to protect it. In fact you willingly give it to thieves. Selfish people, egotistical people, negative people, people who wont shut up. Treat your time like Fort Knox. Guard it closely and give it only to those who deserve and respect it. 9. You can't/won't let go. These are getting a little harder arent they? Thats because sometimes you have to work at happiness. Some hurdles are too difficult to clear by simply adjusting your point of view or adopting a positive mindset. Do you need to forgive someone? Do you need to turn your back on a failed relationship? Do you need to come to terms with the death of a loved one? Life is full of loss. But, in a sense, real happiness would not be possible without it. It helps us appreciate and savor the things that really matter. It helps us grow. It can help us help others grow. Closure is a word for people who have never really suffered. Theres no such thing. Just try to manage your loss. Put it in perspective. You will always have some regret and doubt about your loss. You may always second guess yourself. If only you had said this, or tried that. Youre not alone. Find someone who understands and talk to that person. Reach out for support. If all else fails, try #10 below. 10. You don't give back. One way to deal with loss is to immerse yourself in doing good. Volunteer. Get involved in life. It doesn't even have to be a big, structured thing. Say a kind word. Encourage someone. Pay a visit to someone who is alone. Get away from your self-absorption. When it comes down to it, there are two types of people in this world. There are givers and there are takers. Givers are happy. Takers are miserable. What are you?

Posted on: 4 January 2017 | 5:08 am